The Secular Case Against Gay Marriage

 Brian Worley  

I really like good religion. It is one of the best things society has going for it! When nobody cares, religion often comes to the aid or rescue of those in need. With progressive politicians and secular academia’s (without a religious base) abandonment of the defense of marriage, who else but the church is left to fight for the great institution of marriage? 

There are several wrongs that need to be addressed right off the bat. First, the church shouldn’t be distracted with something outside of the church’s primary mission. As kindly as I can say this, they are the wrong people with the weaker argument to have to defend marriage! They step forward because secularism has failed to protect marriage; the church has been the last line of defense.  

How insufficient is the religious rebuttal against gay marriage? Who wants to listen to and what credibility do religious institutions have that continue to harbor pedophiles and that can’t keep themselves out of the headlines for sexual deviancy? Churches have blown their moral authority and history is likely to show that religion will go down as the “weak lawyer” that lost the case of gay marriage for the rest of society.  

The second wrong to address will likely offend many that will eventually like what I will later say. It involves pseudo-science, warfare against science, misinformation, and plain ole bigotry. 

It’s an undisputable fact that some humans are born with both male & female sexual anatomy (hermaphrodite). God made them this way. With the visual evidence of hermaphrodite anatomy within humanity, how can anyone reasonably object to the concept that some people’s brain might be wired with same sex attraction? 

Homosexual activity has been scientifically documented in many species of animals. You might not like this fact, but it is natural. You would have to say that God made them this way, unless you want to utter a ridiculous argument that animals have free will and have rebelled against God. 

The Biblical Case Against Homosexuality 

What’s this got to do with gay marriage? While you won’t find the words gay marriage in the Bible, the Bible clearly prohibits homosexuality. The following verses contain Christianity’s written policy towards gay people; I’ll let the Bible speak for itself (King James Version): 

Leviticus 18:22
Thou shalt not lie with mankind, as with womankind: it is abomination.

Leviticus 20:13
If a man also lie with mankind, as he lieth with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination: they shall surely be put to death; their blood shall be upon them.

Romans 1:26
For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature:

 27And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet.

 28And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient;

 29Being filled with all unrighteousness, fornication, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, debate, deceit, malignity; whisperers,

 30Backbiters, haters of God, despiteful, proud, boasters, inventors of evil things, disobedient to parents,

 31Without understanding, covenantbreakers, without natural affection, implacable, unmerciful:

 32Who knowing the judgment of God, that they which commit such things are worthy of death, not only do the same, but have pleasure in them that do them.

Now imagine if your employee handbook said the above is the company policy. To stay employed, you must not dissent from church policy no matter how vile it may be. The Old Testament says homosexuals shall “surely be put to death” while the New Testament says that they are “worthy of death”.  Intelligent, rational and empathetic clergy are automatically in a compromising position. The Bible is their book that reveals what their God wants. In short, the Bible is inhumane, unconscionable, and bigoted towards gay people and goes as far to say that God actually gave them unto vile affection (the cause of homosexuality). Romans 1:26 states that for vindictive reasons the god of the Bible himself is to blame for distributing gayness.

Off topic questions that Christians need to ask themselves

Now I promise to get back on topic, but as many professing Christians don’t read and are unaware of the contents of the scriptures; I’m asking those now to review the Biblical case against homosexuality and thus gay marriage. I’ve got several questions for you.

·       Do you believe that gay people should be put to death?

·       Do you believe that God should give people something vile and still be viewed as loving and worthy of worship?

·       Since people are born with and later realize innate homosexual desires…should God condemn what he creates?

·       Imagine if you were gay. How would you feel if “god and god loving people following his book” treated you with such contempt?

I am personally acquainted with an educated Lutheran pastor that just couldn’t subscribe to such vileness and was fired. He is a good man that paid a price for his stance. People with a conscious, intellect and a good heart know what they must do! The flip side of this is for the Christian church to realize that the vile seeds sown from the Bible have produced a movement with the means and motive to destroy Christianity! I’d estimate that 45+ % of atheism that wants to rid the world of Christianity are primarily motivated over the Biblical stance of homosexuality. I’d say that at least one third of all atheists are gay. Compare this with the general population and you will have started to gain perspective.

Christianity is probably unaware of the scope of the last paragraph; it should be an eye opener and front-page news for them. People appreciate what I like to call “common good Christianity”. If homosexuality were not a Biblical topic, I seriously doubt that skeptics would be so vehemently opposed to religious mythology today! Don’t let anyone fool you; homosexuality is THE main atheist issue, yet Christian leaders cannot comprehend why people are so enraged against the church. Now you know!

I see the church having a problem that they do not know how to fix. The Pentateuch and the writings of Paul are indispensable to Christianity, to repudiate them is to repudiate the faith altogether. If Christianity doesn’t fix the problem atheism likely will! Do you see how important this issue is?

There are so many unrecognized inner connected strands that I wish people could see. It appears to me that revolutionaries found an exploitable issue (homosexuality) and backed a willing player (atheism) to wage warfare upon their target, cultural Christianity. This, I believe is the untold story behind the rise of “new atheism.”

This ex-minister likes good religion and common good Christianity and thinks the world is a better place because of them. However, sexual matters such as their stance on homosexuality are repulsive! It’s bad religion. The clock is ticking and the LGBT community will not be silenced, nor should they be patient with church hierarchy inactivity.

It’s a complex issue to those of us that don’t want to destroy religion; it’s cut and dried easy for those that do! I don’t think the Christian church’s heart aligns with the bigotry of their book, yet they are intrinsically bound. It’s the note upon which revolutionaries strike up the band. What I’ve expressed is as much for the Christian church as it is for those seeking to destroy it. For the later, someone needs to reach out and help me further Ex-Minister’s unique brand of skepticism to curtail religious disparagement.

Marriage is a civil institution, not a religious one   

As earlier stated, homosexuality and marriage are differing issues. It should be apparent why the church shouldn’t be involved in the gay marriage issue due to their bigoted homosexual vantage point. Marriage is a secular matter, not a religious issue! It is the state that sanctions marriage. The official performing the marriage ceremony says…”by the power invested in my by the state of “Maryland”, I now pronounce you man and wife”.

Despite the popularity of churches as the chosen venue, or the prevalence of clergymen officiating and their subsequent prayers or blessings upon the marriage it should never be forgotten that it was the state that granted the authority.

I am amazed that so many “freethinkers” that keep reminding the rest of us of their intellectual acumen have been so easily bamboozled and disengaged by buying into the notion that marriage is a religious institution. Some of the most boisterous barker’s for church – state separation are atheists that can’t discern the difference between the location of a marriage ceremony taking place in a church and the civil/secular institution sanctioned by the state.

Gay marriage advocates want to ascribe marriage as a religious ordeal and then turn around and chide the state over separation of church/state matters as their strategy in hope to parley gay marriage acceptance.

Marriage has been absolutely defined by the United Nations

The Universal Declaration of Human Rights issued by the General Assembly of the United Nations has definitively defined the definition of marriage in 1948. Article 16 reads:

1)    Men and women of full age, without any limitation due to race, nationality or religion, have the right to marry and to found a family. They are entitled to equal rights as to marriage, during marriage and at its dissolution.

2)    Marriage shall be entered into only with the free and full consent of the intending spouses.

3)    The family is the natural and fundamental group unit of society and is entitled to protection by society and the State.

Authority? You can’t get any better than the United Nations as the entity to fortify the definition of marriage. Once again, it is not the church that defines or grants authority for marriage; it is the state! Spouses in point 2 eliminate any “loophole”; marriage can only be between men and women! I might add that the UN has a golden opportunity to win over some of its skeptics and relieve anxiety by honoring point #3.

This is America: A Democracy Decides 

Since marriage is a civil/secular institution, any alteration to it should have had to come through the scrutiny of the democratic process.

California got it right. Rather than legislatively foist gay marriage upon the people, an initiative Proposition 8 was placed upon the ballot where voters were given the choice…that’s democracy folks! Its Un-American that select bureaucrats have a tangle with democracy and have chosen to block the will of its citizens. Since no US state through voter referendums has ever approved of gay marriage, courts and legislatures have decided to take matters into their own hands to legalize gay marriage in Connecticut, Vermont, New Hampshire, Massachusetts, New York, Washington, D.C., Iowa, Oregon’s Coquille and Washington state’s Suquamish Indian Tribes. 

 Political Babylon: The Absurdity of Confounding Language

It astounds me how stupid politicians can be at times. Lets say that Warren Buffett walks into a room with his Latvian wife by his side and they are ushered to the podium for an anniversary toast. A few moments after the toast a stranger enters that room where he knows no one. Someone informs the stranger that he just missed the anniversary toast of the couple on the podium. All he sees is a woman in between the two men.

Language is so helpful, pragmatic and lucid that he wouldn’t need to ask a question if someone were to point to Mr. Buffett and ask the stranger who his spouse or wife on stage was. The traditional definition of marriage is crystal clear.

If bureaucrats are allowed to get away with confounding our language (political Babylon) by redefining marriage, the above scenario might require two questions and embarrass everyone on that podium. That’s awkward and preventable. In essence, the fulcrum of the controversy asks whether a man and woman that are married should allow obliteration of their term that sufficiently encapsulates their union. It’s an absurd and belligerent assumption foisted upon the family…yes they do mind! That is why it doesn’t win on the ballot.

Ramifications of re-defining marriage…make them pay!

Mamby-pamby politicians should be made to bear the brunt of their redefining ploy. How? First vote them out of office. Second, every interview or exchange in which they mention their spouse…they should be asked if their spouse is their husband or their wife? Did they marry a man or a woman? Their new definition begs the question. I can’t imagine that they would like this, but they would probably be driven to understand the ramifications of their assault on the dictionary and society.

An Ex-Minister’s Solution

The secular case against gay marriage is easy to understand once you rightfully isolate it from the religious landscape. Gay marriage is an impossibility, a misnomer, because marriage can only be between a man and a woman. Language has a function and a purpose to delineate terms so that meaning can be attained, no need to confound this. Marriage has likely been around for over 4,000 years…this would make it much older than the church. While I can’t ascertain precisely when it started the traditional understanding of marriage was diplomatically affirmed by the United Nations 63 years ago. Should anyone want to change the tradition, which has served society well, it must go through the rigors of the democratic process. That’s the way democracies work, we have more important matters in society that should take precedence over this contrived issue.

The bulk of this essay had to do with religious aspects muddied just as much by secular misunderstanding as it has been by religious bigotry. With these things being sorted out the right thing to do with homosexual couples that want to join together in union is to unequivocally permit same sex union, civil partnership or union (whatever you want to call it…just don’t call it marriage).

Brian Worley   Ex-Minister.org      October 26, 2011   All rights reserved

 


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